By Damn Fab Desi It was bad enough doing this the first time around. The dreaded chat would start once studies had finished. “It’s time to find a rishta”. Well, at least back in the day — and I can’t imagine much has changed in that respect. The word ‘rishta’ is used loosely now to basically mean, find a man. However, so much has changed for me from then to now. One marriage, broken by a betrayal I never saw coming, left its mark for a long time — and…